Nepal-Lesson We are Not Learning

The devastation is so extreme!
The common man stands at loss, who has not even been part of all those decisions where laws must have been violated in favour of profit. The nature has decided to be relentless when it has realised that so is man. But in this game the looser is the one who had nothing harm in the first place except may be not revolted.

Journey or Destiny

 Happiness is a journey... not a destination. Ben Sweetland

When I shall get it I shall be happy and as soon as I get it I realise either that it is not enough or it is not what I actually perceived it to be. So I am again at zero level of happiness. I again search for a new avenue to make me happy. The search is endless.

So instead if we enjoy the journey to our epitome of happiness there are chances that we can be happy for longer period of time.

Tomorrow’s another day

These lines are from Sydney Sheldon’s,”Tell Me Your Dreams”.

Sandra studied her husband’s troubled face. “Did Mr. Kincaid say anything about the partnership, David?”

He shook his head. “No.”

Sandra said brightly, “He will. Tomorrow’s another day.”

This is what keeps us all going isn’t it. This faith that there will be change of scenario tomorrow, this hope that there will be light at the end of tunnel keeps us facing the challenges that have power to break us. This is what life is all about.

This is the biggest distress mantra too!

Because there are somethings going on in every-bodies life which require the support of this thought.

My Life's Purpose

The purpose of our lives is to be happy. Dalai Lama

But we are miserable most of the time.

Is it because of others?

Or is it because of our reaction to others?

I am unhappy because my ego which I value a lot is hurt by others, isn’t it?

Now I cannot control the behavior of other but I can always control my reaction to it.

So next time when some action or words by other seems to dampen your happiness, change your reaction to it. Do not let anybody take away your purpose of life.

Now or Never

The trick is in what one emphasizes. We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves happy. The amount of work is the same.
Carlos Castaneda

Is it so? I feel we use more energy to be miserable. We do not let ourselves enjoy anything because we scare ourselves in believing that every good will be followed by worst and we miss our chance of enjoying the good.
Try some day to just enjoy the moment and let the , " Doubting Tom ", take a day off!

Silence

I observed a very interesting phenomena lately, that silence is very peaceful and soothing. Due to changes in my life recently I am in my own company most of the time and trust me it is fun. I do things my way. I suddenly realised I  am not an extrovert but an introvert.
In fact all of us need to be introvert for some time. It gives us chance to be with our selves. It also is a good opportunity to align to the almighty and realise the strength He gives us.
Try sometimes!

human and parents: Did You All Miss Me?

human and parents: Did You All Miss Me?: Well I missed you all. I felt a part of me was away but the life was on a roll a coaster ride so needed some time to set it in order. So I ...

Did You All Miss Me?

Well I missed you all. I felt a part of me was away but the life was on a roll a coaster ride so needed some time to set it in order. So I am back with lot of thoughts to share. 
I had a near miracle experience in life where I saw many relations unfold and present them selves in new dimension. I learnt meaning of "Each one for Self ". 
It is a hard truth of life but then that is the beauty of life, it shows you new paths and directions to teach you newer lessons.

I am the JUDGE

Paulo Coelho tweeted ,"It is so easy, yet so few can distance themselves from judging others."

It is such a simple truth about all of us. We are always assessing whom ever we meet. We will first assess on the basis of looks then clothes  then the place they belong to ... . The list is endless.

I learnt the flaw of this habit at a very young age. At that time I was only 23 years old and so full of myself and my intelligence in judging others. Here I was waiting for the bus at a deserted bus stop with only another young lady for company. All this while I had made my assessment of  the young lady on the basis of her very simple clothes and even simpler looks. I had rejected her as a commoner who according to me was certainly below my level of social status and of course certainly below my level of educational status.So as the destiny will have it I was in for a big lesson. The girl confirmed with me the bus number that could drop her at the same place as I was going. When I told her that I was waiting for the same bus to go to the same place, she asked me directions to a particular temple in the vicinity which she wanted to visit as she wanted to sit there to decide which of the two courses she should take on in her masters as she had got into two most prestigious courses in IIT. I was embarrassed at all what I had assumed about her. But as a good student I learnt the lesson of avoiding to judge and wait patiently to draw right results.